About Grand Matriarchy

Grand Matriarchy exists to rebuild what modern life quietly dismantled the village. Not as a metaphor, but as a living network of real people showing up for each other across three generations. Through our Worlds, our Circles, and Daisy the grandmother at the center of it all we give people the relationships, the structure, and the culture they need to go from alone to held. We believe the grandmother function is the single most powerful upstream fix for loneliness, fractured families, and communities that lost the habit of showing up.

Grand Matriarchy is a membership platform built on one idea: the village gets built by givers, not takers.

We publish five books about rebuilding family, community, and connection. We build technology that helps people go from alone to 25 people across three generations. We believe the grandmother function, the person at the center who holds everyone together, is the upstream fix for loneliness, broken relationships, and communities that stopped showing up for each other.

The Company

Grand Matriarchy is operated by Grand Matriarchy Inc and MeshXE LLC. We partner with our sister organization Grandma Daisy Inc, a Maryland nonprofit corporation (EIN 41-5213177) awaiting 501(c)(3) designation. The nonprofit builds community programs, library partnerships, and the national village data platform. The commercial side builds the technology, the membership platform, and the Daisy product.

The Author

Martin Vendemia is the author of the Grand Matriarchy book series: five books about family structure, community rebuilding, and what happens when the grandmother function disappears. Based in Maryland. Published by Inner Group Media.

Read the books

Contact

For partnerships, press, and speaking: grandmatriarchy.com/contact

The Research Behind the Work

Every claim in every book traces to published research. Here is a sample of the evidence base.

Study / Finding Year Field Book
Grandmother Hypothesis — Hawkes et al.1998Evolutionary BiologyGM Ch. 3
Cooperative Breeding in Humans — Hrdy2009AnthropologyGM Ch. 4
Loneliness Epidemic — Surgeon General Report2023Public HealthGM Ch. 1
Kin Network Size and Mortality — Holt-Lunstad2015Meta-analysisGM Ch. 2
Grandmother Effect on Child Survival — Sear & Mace2008DemographicsGM Ch. 3
Post-reproductive Lifespan in Orcas — Croft et al.2015Marine BiologyGM Ch. 5
Social Capital and Community Health — Putnam2000SociologyGM Ch. 6
Intergenerational Transfers — Lee & Kramer2002EconomicsGMG Ch. 2
Marriage Markets and Kin Networks — Coontz2005HistoryGMR Ch. 1
Grandfamily Policy Landscape — Generations United2021PolicyGMV Ch. 8
ACEs and Family Resilience — Felitti et al.1998MedicineGMV Ch. 3
Giving Behavior in Kin Networks — Komter & Schans2008SociologyGMG Ch. 5

Sample from 200+ cited studies across all five books. Full bibliography in each volume.